Dr. Umar Khan
Dr. Khan belongs to a Lahore based Think Tank.
28-9-26
Will Pakistan Ever Become a Normal
Country?
While searching through old photographs in a dusty trunk, I
found an old envelope. The address was written in an immature but familiar
handwriting. Inside was a letter I had written in Urdu to my father when I was
six years old. It was late 1965, and my soldier father was posted in Kashmir
after the recently concluded Indo-Pak war. Following pleasantries, I was
shocked to find the first sentence: “Aba aap ne kitney Hindu maarey?” — Daddy,
how many Hindus did you kill?
An innocent six-year-old mind had been so poisoned that he
considered Hindus—fifteen percent of the world’s population—completely
dehumanized, and killing them a noble task. This innocent writer was not alone.
Millions of Pakistani children were brought up filled with hate and zeal for
violence, partially a legacy of the extreme bloodshed of Partition.
Growing up in Pakistan in the sixties, the important patriotic
lessons a child learned were as follows: As a good Pakistani, I must hate
India, which had never accepted Pakistan and was always scheming to destroy it.
Hindus were the most evil intriguers, and I should hate them. Then the targets
turned international. Communists were atheists and anti-religious, so as a
Muslim living in Pakistan—the bastion of Islam—I must hate them and work to destroy
them. Jews were also evil, always conniving, and I was to hate and fight them
too. The hate-filled derogatory term “Yahood o Hanood” was openly discussed in
the national media and considered socially acceptable. Then there were local
villains deserving my hatred, primarily the Ahmadis, who were heretics and thus
deserving of my utmost contempt. I was convinced, like millions of others, that
getting martyred fighting these evils would be the noblest wish I should strive
for.
Then came other important lessons: Bengalis of East Pakistan
were short and dark, making them inferior, along with their historically
doubtful loyalty. They were always to be suspected and never trusted—but let us
keep this topic for another time. Interestingly, despite studying in a
church-run public school, these prejudices were reinforced, and progress of the
nation, human development, or human rights were never mentioned without
ridicule. Much later, in my adolescent years attending an elite public school
in Pakistan, we were encouraged by our Islamiat teacher to conquer Delhi,
Moscow, and—for this extremely ambitious teacher—Washington too.
The creation of Pakistan was based on the two-nation theory,
which held that Hindus and Muslims cannot live together, or in other words,
Muslims cannot live as a minority. Yet today, millions of Pakistani Muslims
eagerly migrate to non-Muslim-majority countries and live peacefully with
Hindus and Sikhs. This raises a question: is the Pakistani expat community
negating the two-nation theory? If that is the case, then their privileges as
Pakistanis must be withdrawn.
So we see that, unfortunately, the creation of Pakistan was
based on hatred as its most important raison d’être. What it resulted in was a
strange state the kind the world had never witnessed. A staunch and unbendable
set of enforced beliefs, having little rationale behind them. It has been going
through a critical period since its very inception, facing one crisis after
another and refusing to learn. There is no mention of public welfare.
In its short history, it has been in perpetual wars—starting
with the first Kashmir war, to the Cold War, to the 1965 war, to the Bangladesh
war, to the Afghan war, to Kargil and other Kashmir wars, to another Afghan
war, to the war against terrorism, to multiple wars against the Baloch and
tribals, and many more, with no end in sight. In its early days, it excelled in
sports, producing world-class athletes like Subedar Khaliq and squash legends
like the Hashim brothers, and dominated world hockey. But now Pakistan is
nowhere to be seen. Any big achiever we see now is not due to Pakistan but
despite it. Now our only achievements are military, and the innumerable list of
martyrs is increasing exponentially. Pride is synonymous with the military and
its parades. There are unending wars, and its cities are decorated with models
of fighter airplanes, tanks, bombs, and pictures of martyrs. Hatred for India,
Hindus, and Jews is prevalent and encouraged.
This has resulted in a country with a tattered economy needing a
lifeline of loans for its survival but still prides itself in being a nuclear
power; the world’s poorest. It is among one of the most unstable countries. It
ranks among the highest in terror-affected nations. Tax spenders are honorable
while taxpayers are humbled. The passport ranking is one of the lowest in the
world. Pakistanis have become pariahs of the world, routinely going through
belittling experiences at airports the world over. One cannot discuss the biggest
expense: defense, that is conducted mostly through guns with hardly any
diplomacy. This has resulted in strained relations with all its neighbors
except one.
Pakistan has been losing land gradually—first Kashmir, then East
Pakistan, then Siachen, among others. It has become a gun for hire, fighting
proxy wars. We participated in the Cold War and still pride ourselves on
defence pacts with others, basically for want of money. Many foreign players
influence Pakistan’s internal affairs and politics directly, raising serious
doubts about its sovereignty. It has lots of religion still unable to control
dishonesty and corruption. Cleanliness, education, and human rights—the most
important tenets of Islam—are totally ignored while rituals have dominated.
Ye ummat rivāyāt meñ kho ga.ī
Haqīqat ḳhurāfāt meñ kho ga.ī
The condition of human development is one of the lowest. In
corruption (CPI), it ranks 135 out of 180. Pakistan’s judiciary is ranked 130
among 143. Only 60% are literate, barely. It has one of the highest infant
mortality rates: 48–52 deaths per 1,000 live births. It ranks 164th out of 193
in the Human Development Index. Life expectancy is much lower, ranking 164 out
of 193. It ranks among the bottom tier in per capita income, making it a very
poor country.
A very healthy and vibrant society got derailed and spoiled by
strange developments. Former UK Home Secretary Suella Braverman in April 2023
linked British Pakistani men to child sexual exploitation grooming gangs,
suggesting something inherently flawed in the society. Afghan National Security
Advisor Hamdullah Mohib and US lawyers also share unflattering views that we
have gotten used to.
Honor killings further lend credence to this argument.
Unfortunately, having lived in this society, I will confess that these
allegations, although exaggerated, are not entirely baseless.
In short, Pakistan has become an unending quagmire with no end
in sight. It is time to face the truth and reality and take the bull by its
horns.
To begin with, we must confess that Pakistan is neither a divine
light nor one of God’s mysteries. It is a region of the world afflicted by the
scourges of lawlessness, mismanagement, corruption, unbridled institutions,
unemployment, inflation, and hunger. An unfortunate country where the law
enforcers are the biggest lawbreakers. A few minutes on the roads will make it
clear that responsibility is often considered impunity.
We must stop living in our imaginary glorious past and start
facing reality. Must stop glamorizing violence and the violent. We must have
limits of glamorizing the martyrs; Pakistani moms raise their sons to have nice
productive noble lives and not to get killed violently.
A nation based on hate cannot realistically be optimistic about
its future and the wellbeing of its citizens. Let us start respecting its
citizens, by surrendering to their collective political judgment and then
investing in their talents. Pakistan must fight and end hatreds of all kinds,
freeing our young of the innumerable prejudices we enforce on them. We must
stop the demonization and degrading of Hindus, Sikhs, Jews, or anyone else. We
must cure this artificial, destructive xenophobia by ending the overuse of the
word “ENEMY”. After curing the self-destructory attitudes, let us start
focusing on our 250 million hapless citizens and improving their pathetic
conditions. There is no nobler and greater achievement than improving the lot
of people.
Let us make Pakistan a
normal country that strives to be a blessing for its people and not for
international powers.
Riyāsat hogī, māñ kī jaisī
The state will be like a mother.

